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Why do some people laugh at younger people in love?

Some people laugh at younger people when they say there in love I think it’s kinda funny how they laugh like are we dumb for thinking were in love? Um no I know what love is I know wht puppy love is to I had that when I was 13 but I also met someone else at 13 an state with him for five years I learned so much an how to protect myself from getting hurt because that boy now man hurt me so much I was always heart broken an of course he’s my first real true love and when people laugh at that kind of thing it seriously makes me mad because love is something you don’t ever wanna let go of you’ll sacrafice everything an love them for who they are an commit to that relationship an love them with all you have because to you there is no one else in the world that matters As much at the one your so devoted to an you can’t sleep without them at night like you need them there an that’s what I have now I’m so lucky to have someone that wants to be with me everyday an gives me the same respect ad I give him and I know I love him we can tlk about everything were so open about our sex life and about how we feel he’s like my bestfriend and were together every single day he’s always sleeping next to me at night and I’m so happy to say I love him an also I’m happy I got hurt by my first love because now I know how to react to heart break and it’s easy for me to take chances because without taking chances you’ll never learn from the mistakes you made but I don’t count anything as a mistake only as the best thing that could have ever happened for me:)

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Answer #1

It’s this:

If older people see a very young couple of lovers, they think of their own first love and they remeber how dumb THEY were. So they think you’re the same.

When you’re a teenager, sometimes your hormones go amok. And to a teenager everything seems to be much more important to you than it seems to an adult.

When I was a teenager everything had to be absolute. If I liked someone, they had to be best friends. If I hated someone, I dreamed about seing them dead. Today those things seem somewhat ridiculous to me. Today I can’t imagine why I absolutely hated that girl who said my favorite band is crappy. Back then it seemed was the most important thing in life.

So adult people think its the same with love. For some teenagers it is. You tell your ma you’re totally in love with a boy, she’ll laugh and remember her own first love. Who might be somebody who is dull an boring to her these days. Back then she thought he was perfect and love would last like forever.

But always rember: They are not you. You are you. Only you know how you feel. Don’t let anyone scatter your dreams. They may yet come true.

Answer #2

I don’t think it’s not “love” what that may be. I just think as a teenager you fall in and out of “love” quickly and easily, generally.

Answer #3

I think it’s funny as well, I met my first boyfriend when I was 14 and when people found out that I eventually he loved him and loved me, they was all like oh you don’t know what love is blah blah blah, well nearly four years on, where still together and guess what, I still love him more than ever lol.

Answer #4

Come back to this question in 5 years and you will laugh too.

xox Sika

Answer #5

me too. I truley am in love with my boyfriend and he is in love with me.

Answer #6

I dont get the stuff you guys say, I told my mom that me and my boyfriend were in love and she didnt do or say anything, adn his parents even think me and him will last. and so do me and him and everyone else. dose this mean we will? and hes a really good guy instead of calling me sexy and hot he says beautiful adn gorgeous. and he always says how much he loves me, and misses me. also that he hopes we grow old together. he even wrote me like 4 poems

Answer #7

It isnt about the being in love part. It’s the “I cant live without them” or the “I’m never going to get over them” or the “I’m going to be with them forever” that is kinda amusing. Sorry, but adults have been there and know different… 1 in 1000 teen relationships last long term. Is it possible to be that 1, well sure. But it’s not likely.

Also, your math is a little confusing. You were born in sept of 1992? Which would make you 17. But you’ve been with a guy for 5 years, since you were 13? Which would make you 18?

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