what is the reason

when someone make fun of me I cant think of anything to say , to make him stop , nothing , what is the reason for that ,

Answer #1

Learning how to “come back” at someone doesn’t come natural for some people. I know I can never think of something to say to people, then 2 hours later I will think of the perfect comeback when it’s too late.

The best thing to do - is ignore them. It will piss them off more than anything you could every say to them.

Answer #2

Maybe just your comeback skills need a bit working on. Just say “You’re not even worth my breath” if they try to make fun of you. Don’t overuse it though.

Nothings worth fighting over, so don’t try to get into a fight unless you HAVE to.

Most of the time people want you to respond so they can drag it out even further, they are what you call “Morons.”

Answer #3

Oh, and you should try to be the type of person who get’s his confidence from his personal qualities, not like them, by making fun of others.

Answer #4

thats actually better you dont always have to say something in fact silence pisses some people off

Answer #5

My elders would always tell me, “respond to idiots with silence.” Now if you want to look good in front of other idiots you could say something worse back to the person making fun of you, which, ya, would probably make you feel better to get the person laughed at, but it’s also childish, but if the people around you are a little more sophisticated, you should really “respond with silence”, which will give off the impression that you don’t give a damn about the person making fun of you and that you don’t even want to waste your time with them because they just don’t matter. And what’s often happened to me, is that I think of GREAT comebacks after it’s all over lol. So maybe they just catch you off guard? Or you get worried or afraid. But saying something stupid just to say something back is the worst thing you can do, it’ll be more embarrassing than just walking away. So I think that if you’re just a little more confident in yourself, it’ll be easier to deal with these kids, if it’s either saying something back or walking away, do it with confidence, it’s all that matters. Good luck.

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