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What I did: should I tell him I cheated with a girl?
I get forced into cheating on my boyfriend with a girl because I promised her I would give her a chance and I dont know why I dated her at all but now im faced with a problem, I love my boyfriend to death and I don’t wanna loose him…but I feel guilty, and im crying my heart out for doing this to him…should ii tell him or leave it be and try and forget it?
you wernt forced into anything as ty said, forced basically means soemone physically forcing you to have sex with them, like threatening you with a gun not you making a promise and then cheating on your partner YOU made the decision to have sex with her even if you promised, that promise could have taken place when you wernt in a relationship and she should have understood that you were taken you didnt HAVE to have sex with her, it was your choice I would say tell your boyfreind I wouldnt say keep it a secret as by the soundsof it, it could very well be something you do again your boyfreind has the right to know what you did, because hes in the relationship too wether you cheated on a guy or girl doesnt matter, though some guys wont care if it was with a girl its still fair to let them know after all its soemthing people usually eventually find out about and the later on the find out, usually the more hurt they feel I mean if our boyfreind cheated on you would you want him to tell you, or keep it a secret from you
I have a suggestion. If you chose to tell him, please word it differently. Because if you tell me you were ‘forced’ to cheat on me, there had better either have been a gun involved or some sort of weapon. In which case I dont think it counts as cheating. You were not forced to do anything. So lets admit at least to yourself, that you willingly cheated. Now, I’m not being judgmental here. People make mistakes. You have to decide. Because if you cant put this aside, then it’s going to ruin your relationship anyways. And so maybe it would be better to come clean and try to salvage it, then to slowly have it burn out and he has no clue why that happened. I know a lot of people believe honesty is the best policy. But I guess that depends on the person. If someone cheated on me, they knew they’d never do it again, and things were able to continue being ok. I wouldnt want to know. But a lot of people dont see it that way. This is really going to have to be your decision.
I think you should be honest and deal with the consequences. You need to look at why you really did this. Attention? Too weak? You need to focus on fixing yourself, too.
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