What do you think of physical punishment?

I believe that slapping, hitting, or any form of physical pain is wrong to put upon a child. I think that maybe parents should just stop it altogether. And if hitting your child doesnt work, then why do they keep doing it and do it harder?

Honestly, I think that hitting a kid when they are young and older is pointless, it only teaches them pain and hurt and anger. I only got madder, and more pissed off at the world. It didnt work, and most definitely never will.

Answer #1

Measured and appropriate discipline is necessary for the child to grow into a well-balanced adult - children learn what they live - likewise the adult must be the adult and ensure discipline lines are not crossed over into abuse and loving and caring emphasized.

Answer #2

I spank but not hard. It gets my kids’ attention really quick. It lets them know I’m serious. Then I tell them what they did wrong. So it just has to be something you do gently not over-doing it. At the end of the day I still get “I Love You’s”. Just know that you don’t hit in rage and you don’t make your kids fearful of you. That is another ballgame.

Answer #3

does someone want to tel my mother this, I was thinking to myself the other day that one time, when we use to use phrases like ‘man you stink’ and I said it to my mum as a joke and she hit me,along with lots of evry occasions,shes hit me in school before and evrything its just not right

Answer #4

I agree. I do not think that hitting a child, slapping a child, or spanking a child is the answer. I find those parents hypocrites to teach their children that violence is wrong and then they punish them that way. There are WAY more other ways of disciplining a child without ever laying a hand on them. I would never lay a hand on my son.

Answer #5

I think that it just makes a child resentful, if you go past that. is it really right to go farther with it if a kid is STILL misbehaving, even if they keep going after getting slapped? like slapping them in the face, slamming them down in a chair for timeout, hitting them. and if they get bruised from it, but the bruise is small, its still a bruise isnt it? or is this just an overreaction? I don’t know about you, but I think that parents can go wayyy too far with it. and does that count as beating?

Answer #6

Some kids are unruly and need to be spanked. I don’t think parents should hit their kids anywhere else but on their bottoms though.

Answer #7

Taken beyond the children, there are only two types of punishment offered in the USA - jail or capital. In Canada, only jail. Neither one really seem to work. I believe that a little corporal (physical) punishment might go a long way.

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