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My parents are so annoying. They care about me just tooo much. They even dont let me go to sleepovers because they think this makes them "lose me" and my mom thinks that my friend's dad or older brother are going to rape me or something. Ughhh. And I can't even stay out late! And my mom found out that I went to a bar. And it was only once. God. Pls help me! It's like my parents never let me do thing that teenagers do! By the way I'm 14 :d
I like the way you left out 'by the way I'm 14' till teh end lol I was expecting you to say im 18 or summet..
your 14... shes just got your best intrests at heart but if you want more freedom you gotta sit down with them and negotiate ;)
as for what saying to my parents when I go clubbing... well I dont see my dad and my mom dont care cus im old enought to go lol
you shouldnt go cus if you get served and caught yiou risk the bar manager losing his job and it will be both your faults because of it... his fault for not asking for ID and your fault for asking for a drink..
can you live with that?
Excuse me, a bar? You are a child! You should be at home, focusing on school. They probably don't want you going to sleepovers because they don't believe you're really going to them if you're out clubbing and going to bars at 14.
If you want more freedom, you need to earn it. And you don't seem like you deserve it right now.
Stop sneaking around, and doing things you shouldn't be. That would be the grown-up thing to do, and once they see you acting more like an adult and less like a child, they will be more willing to reconsider your requests for more freedom.
Teenagers aren't supposed to have so much freedom! You are still a /child/. Don't expect to do all these activities just because you think you're all grown up, because you are absolutely not. And your parents don't care "too much", they care just the right amount.
just take baby steps 1st ask for sleep over and sooner or later youll be able to sleepover and then when you do just go to a club with your friend.thats what I do
They are protecting you. What to do? Not much your under their roof. Am I being mean? No just telling the truth.
