What do I if my boyfriend is sexually active?

you say your mature, but your very unsure about urself and your boyfriend too. ask yourself are you really ready t o give yourself over to that person? do you really want to give ourself away to a guy that at the moment is probily being unfaithful? is your body ready? you may think your mature, but in reality, you are only 14. you have a long life ahead of you, and there will be plenty of other guys. you may not want to give it up to this one guy just yet. you guys are not in a relatioship. and when you are togther, it dosent last. he could have sex with you while you guys are still “on” then the next day you guys could be “off” again. make sure you are in a committed and happy and lasting relationship. I suggest not to have sex with him. it seems like he is just using you to do stuff right now. keep comming back to you untill he gets something out of you.

ok now before having sex, talking to your parents may be a good idea, they could help you get extra protection. but what 14 year old will do that right? if you do decide to have sex make sure you are fully protected. and because he has been sexullt active before, make sure he is clean of STD’s and other such things. never go into having sex without knowing the important facts about your partners sexual health and their body.

you must keep in mind that you should be is a stable place emotionally. sex is very emotional. especally the first time. if you are not stable emotionaly as a couple or if you dont have deep longing and completly in love feelings, dont have sex, it is not the right time.

any gentleman would wait till his girl is ready. waiting shows that they truely love you and will do anything for you. especally giving you time to know that you are ready. hes not waiting, so dont have sex with him..

you should not have sex with this guy, but if you decide to, be safe at all costs, you dont want to be another teen mother statistic do you? or get a STD from the guy because he is experenced already. and dont worry that he is already experenced, he could helpyou out because he already knows what to do.

please listen to my advice, trust me. I have experence in this area.