What do I do im in love but he's 2yrs older do age gaps matter??

This boy is 15 and if I told my family they would say he’s to old for me , are they right , im stuck cause I love him loads and I don’t want to lose him

Answer #1

holy god. my boyfriend is 15 and I am 13, and he said hes not going to rush me into anything I dont want to do. your parents should understand that if you arent going to fuck him, than its no big deal!

Answer #2

You are probably going to hate hearing this, but at your age, yes the two year gap does matter. In 5 or 6 years, it won’t be a big deal. Just wait. If you are meant to be with him, it will happen. My husband is two years older than me but we didn’t get together until he had already graduated high school. It was my senior year. There is nothing wrong with waiting a few years.

Answer #3

AGE IS JUST A FREAKING NUMBER!!! im 15 my boyfriend is 17, my moms only 32 and her boyfriend(soon to be husband) is 57, they’re in love, me and my boyfriend are in love… the important thing is 1. that your in love, and 2. that this is what God wants for the both of you. but be careful. theres a lot of things running through 15 yr old boy’s heads, like sexx… im just warning you… be careful, but mainly do what God wants for you!

Answer #4

I don’t find that 2 year age gaps matter much. I think if it was more than 2 years then yes. I was 14 dating a 16 year old. We dated for almost 2 years. So I was 16 and he was 18 when we broke up. I wouldn’t hide it from your family though, that just creates more problems. I think it you like him then go for it, you never know what will happen. My parents started dating when my mom was in 7th grade my dad was in 9th, they’re still together. Never let anyone hold you back from what you like or want. Strive to get it yourself. Good luckk

Answer #5

No not at all! If you love him age is just a number but don’t go to far like 4 or 5 years there’s a 2 year age difference between me and my boyfriend and I’m only 14 so it’s ok! Guys that are older are always more mature than guys your age I’ve learnt that lesson already so don’t worry about it hun if you really like him and he likes you and people have something to say about it don’t listen it’s none of their business where will you get in life if you always care about what people say?

Hope this helped, if you have any more questions just ask:)

Answer #6

my dad is three years older than my mom and they have been together for twenty four years. my boyfriend is four years older than me and we are going strong. my older sister is three years older than her boyfriend and they look like they will be together for ever. rene was over twenty years older than celine dion and they were no doubtedly soul mates. I’d say when the love is true age doesn’t matter.

Answer #7

my dad’s six years older than my mum so i guess age gaps don’t really matter :L. also i had a friend who went out with a guy who was 2 years older than her. so it’s fine :)

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