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What do I do about my boyfriend of 9 months and his cousin?

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He has this cousin that is gay for him. I’m finding myself in a very awkward situation. My boyfriend HATES his cousin but his parents tell him to be nice to him. I’ve been in several fights with his cousin and he has even threatened me and has said things to me about my boyfriend to make me think different of him. My boyfriend has told me that his cousin has even tried to touch him before. Basically his cousins trying to do anything to ruin my life and my relationship with my boyfriend. I’m so sick of this and I don’t know what to do. I really love him but I can’t take this anymore!! HELP?!

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I can see your frustrations, but his cousin isn’t going to take him away from you though because your boyfriend hopefully is not gay, so don’t be jealous or think he has the ability to ruin your relationship…he only does if you let him. I think you both should just ignore him and just hang out when your around the family and be nice like they ask. Your boyfriend needs to tell his mom about his cousin or at least tell them that he causes problems for him and then your boyfriend needs to tell his cousins they are family and that’s it, he doesn’t like guys and he is not going to ever change his mind and if he can’t understand that then your boyfriend can’t hang out with him anymore and he WILL tell his parents that he makes him uncomfortable.

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