Why does it hurt so much when I have sex?

It really really hurts when I have sex! I thought I would get use to it. its so painful, im not that experienced, im olnly 15. wht do I do, im guessing this isnt normal!?

Answer #1

Sex isnt pleasurable for every girl! And it shouldnt important as your education at this stage in your life.

Answer #2

Maybe you should just STOP!!!

Answer #3

You are only 15..you really shouldn’t be having sex..you are so young and you can be doing more important things. I know you probably won’t want to hear this, of course what I’m saying will not persuade you to stop and what’s done has been done. Just be careful..use contraception etc.

Women can bleed the first times they have had sex because their hymen has not been stretched/torn before. The guy may have been too rough, if it is too dry then you will need lubricant. That is the most likely since you say that ‘im not that experienced’.

Other causes could be: -A sort of STI -Yeast infection -Cervical dysplasia - (Cause of this is having sex under 18) -Vaginitus …And More.

Check out http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/menstruation/a/bleedaftersex.htm for more information - it lists the top 10 reasons for bleeding after sex.

Good Luck.

Answer #4

well, im 15 also and it hurt me too, but what really helps is if you use a llubricated condom, and if you are laying on your back. trust me, im small, and hes big, and this helped a lot!

Answer #5

I have the same problem and its not only you and I do not know what to do. :(

Answer #6

I think 15 is a little young to start becoming sexually active…but, I think it could be because you’re vag isn’t use to it. Your hymen probably isn’t stretched out yet. I can tell you that, for me, it hurt the first 7 times or so. Be sure that your guy takes it easy for you until you are feeling better about it. Check into getting lubricant…it works wonders. Also look up info on different contraceptive methods and decide the one that is best for you! Be careful and be smart. I hope I’ve helped you!

Answer #7

Well your very young to be sexualy active, Im 14 and well ofcourse I think about it but I never did it. I wont judge you. :) Maybe he went too hard for your first time, well next time make sure to use lubricant.

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