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How can I stop feeling like this since I found out?

ok i have been with this guy for about 3 weeks and i like him alot but he seems to like another grl and me at the same time and he dont no who to choose and i talk to him all the time and ever since i found that out i cant be around him very good and when i am i get scared that he is goin to hurt me emotionally but then when we are together i start to shake and get scarred about what he is goin to do between us and i dont no what to do about it. i like him so much we have dated about 3 times and this is our 3rd and this thursaday it will be 3 weeks and i like him so much and cant let him go and wen he says lets hang out i am all for it but when he gets to my house or any other place and it is time for us to hang out i get scared to be around him cuz of what has happened in the past with this other girl. so i dont no what to do. So wat do i do?

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this guy of yours sounds a lot like one that i know and dated. we went out twice but he still liked his ex and couldnt choose between us. i broke up with him and they went out again. my advice is, to respect yourself and figure out if hes really worth all the tears. i think you should ask him straight up if he likes you or this other girl more and if he says you then continue to go out with him but if he says this other girl then i dont think you should let yourself be too heartbroken about it because there are other fish in the sea. he might seem like everything right now, but hopefully soon youll meet someone who will treat you with enough respect. the guy i dated was amazing and still is, but hes known as a “player” and you cant let yourself get caught up with him. if he really likes you, then he’ll say so and wont let you go. if he does, thats definitely his loss. oh and this boy and i are very close friends now, so i figured being friends is a lot better than not being anything at all. hope everything works out the way you hope for.

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