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How do I stop feeling like this?

I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 months now and I am constantly constantly constantly worried and jealous about his ex girlfriend who he was with for about a year. I recently found out that he texted her asking how she was and told her that he wanted her to hang out at his house the following weekend. I ended up seeing the text messages and he assured me that it wasnt anything and it wasnt intended as just a hookup. however, ever since, and even before this event, I can not stop thinking about it and he finally said he wouldnt hang out with her but I still feel like they talk and he likes her and most of all that I’m just not as good as her and ill never be as good for him as she was for him. his ex now has a boyfriend but sometimes I feel like if she didnt and we werent dating theyd date and I just always have this feeling that he still likes her and he thinks im not nearly as good enough in several aspects and it just drives me crazy. and I try really hard not to ask or show it but its all I think about sometimes. how do I stop making myself think this or make myself better so that he forgets about his old girlfriend?

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Answer #1

well they have been dating a year so there might still be something(feelings) there I wouldnt doubt your feelings because there is some logic behind them once a guy is over a girl he usually stops thinking about her and you 2 have been dating 2 months then he texts her asking how things have been if I were in your spot I would have ended it theres no reason you should have to feel jealous or worried around him there are more important things to worry about in life

Answer #2

FIRST OF ALL WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT THE NEXT B* NOT TO BE RUDE OR ANYTHING BUT SERIOUSLY AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU WITH HIM AND YOU HAVE SEEN ANYTHING TO CONCLUDE ALL THOSE THINGS YOUR THINKING ALL I KNOW IS IF YOU WANNA KNOW WHATS going ON ASK HIM. YOUR JUST INSECURE IT WILL BE OKAY . ALL you GOT TO DO IS ASK HIM ALL THE QUESTIONS YOUR WONDERING. AND YOU’LL FEEL A LIL BIT BETTER

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