what could this mean ?? I really like this guy

well I’ve liked this guy for a while now he always kind of flirted with me so I assumed he liked me too

so I went to a party one night and he was there … I was drinking and having a good time and stuff but I got a little drunk I guess he kind of was too

I asked him if he wanted to take a walkk and we did but we went where everyones cars were parked.. so we sit on a car and we start kissing I get scared because I’ve never made out before so than we make out a lot and stuff and than he stops and texts his friend something so after he does that his friend calls and tells him something and his friend comes and opens up the car than he leaves we go in the car im sitting in the passengers seat and hes sitting in the drivers. we start kissing again and stuff than we move to the back seat and he had sex with me. =\ afterwards when I saw him again in school hes in my first hour he didnt talk to me at all well he did but not like usual it made me upset because I liked him a lot

I guess he told his friends that he wouldnt ever date me that I wold be just a good f*??? what does that mean also<—

so the next weekend comes .. and we hang out again but this time im with my friend and we go to one of his friends house and we go into a room and we lay down than he starts kissing me and he tried gooign further and I told him no so he gets all mad and he pushes me down,,, than I leave the room and I go talk to my friend and when I come back in hes still there on the bed all mad I ask his friend if he said anything and I guess he called me a b* for not doing anythingg so I go talk to him about it and we end up “doing it” again =|

after that he didnt he started talking to me less when I call him he never asnwers his phone and he always avoids me

does this guy like me or what!? or am I just his “toy;”? I mean doesnt he have to have at least a little bit feelings for me if he had sex with me twice?

<333

thank you for readingg I hope you can asnwer this for me

Answer #1

Guys dont have to like a girl to have sex with her. In his eyes, you are nothing but an object to be played with, then discarded! Dont use sex as a way to get a boy to like you. Thats being very desperate, and easy, and boys dont date easy girls!

Answer #2

ok… im sorry to tell you this, but he’s just using you for sex. that’s what the whole “I wouldnt date her, but she’d be a good F*“ means. basicly he’s playin your feelings… now you did it with him just because he was mad that you didnt, he knows that he can sort of control you now. you sort of gave yourself up to him t easy. that might be difficult for you to think about him, expecially if you like him a lot, but it’s the most likely thing… again, im really sorry

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