What can I do to make my girlfriends mom not hate me anymore?

First of all you shouldnt be smoking. I started smoking about the same age as you and now I regret ever trying it because I’m still smoking and it is very hard and costly to quit. Plus supporting the habit isnt exaclty cheap either.

Second, if quitting is not an option (though it definatlely should be) try not smoking around her mother, especially at her house. It shows respect not to smoke around someone who is so opposed to it.

Next, sometimes its not the act of smoking that turns people off to the smokers, but the bad persona that typically follows with a smoker I.e. someone lazy, with a bad attitude, or just an unproductive member of society. Nobody ever imagines a school teacher as a smoker, right? Its the whole guilty by association thing. So if quitting still isnt an option try to show her you ARE worth while. Be extra sweet and respectful. Go out of your way to show her what a great guy you are and that just because you smoke doesnt mean you fit inside the stereotype usually associate with smokers.

Finally, I cant stress enough how quitting would be your best option but that can be tricky. If you use the patch dont sleep in it because it will give you wicked nightmares (we’re talking waking up with cold sweats and screaming, no fun) The gum tastes really bad and didnt really work for me. And you can go to your doctor about quitting also. Somtimes they have other optons for quitting.

I hope I helped atleast a little bit..

Cheers!