What can I do to make guys like me?

I’m 13, and I’ve only had 1 boyfriend, and we never even went out on a date. Only 3 other REALLY creepy guys have ever liked me. This really creepy guy named Vance who yelled at everyone for no reason, some teachers son who cried every day and fell asleep in class all the time, even in 6th grade named Nathon, and this chubby kid named Sean, who used to come up behind girls (including me) and rub their arms. What can I do to make a nice, normal guys like me?

Answer #1

Just be youself and try to talk to some of the other guys in your grade hope it works out for ya (:

Answer #2

Try and hang around normal guys or that you like make friends with their friends be your self. Try to laugh at their kokes if they mess around a lot tease them but make sure to let them tease back. Make sure friends before asking them out if they seem to like you don’t wait to see if he asks because he might want you to ask and be alone when you ask them out when you do get a normal guy just have fun and don’t worry about getting your heart broken because you still got your whole life ahead of u. If you do break up and still lke them DONT be needy and except their choice but try to still be friends. By the I’m only 13 two in 8th grade a boy a got a girlfriend had more than one also Have fun tell me how it goes

Answer #3

Well.. You can’t really “make” someone like you. But it’s something you have to work on. First you have to find someone you are attracted to. And then you should get to know this person. And if you’re nice, and approchable, it should work out fine. :)

Answer #4

Not worry about it… I mean, you are 13. Dating should be one of the last things of your worries. Wait til you are in highschool to start dating, there will be better options, and you can also join clubs in highschool to find like minded people.

Answer #5

I agree with the one aboive you! you should totally wait! until freshman/… first of all- you worry then and second you will find many creepy, perverted and normal guys!! its okay..but you can be yourself. thats all. And when a weird guy likes u- think of it as a good thing… you dont have to go out with him or watever- but hey! it means they think your pretty. so dont let it put you down but bring you up!! you get me?? and btw im like 14 and never had a boyfriend or dated.. hah wanna know why?? because I dont think its worth havin your heart broken.. =] so thnk of it as a good and normal thing!!

Answer #6

normal guys like girls who can be outgoing and be themself

Answer #7

Thanks highflyer and caughtwithcandie. Your answers REALLY helped. :)

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