I can't drive or walk to any stores and my moms birthday is coming up soon. I was told not to tell my dad because my mom is trying to not remind him to see if he remembers. What should I do?
Write her short stories that is what I did for my father. (Only he was blind and did not want me to read them to him though I had prepared exactly 68 for his 68th birthday, and he eventually he admitted he resented I had written them for him while cooking and he worshipped cooking disgustingly, a holy ritual where I should wait and watch for hours even if it was only for the dogs.)
You could see how much money you have, and when its your moms bday, make her a card and say 'next time we go out, I will buy you a new top (or whatever) because I didn't know what you wanted.' Maybe you could pick some flowers out of gardens too for her.
You could ask a friend to buy it for you, and you could pay them back. You can hand craft it. Or you can try buying it online. :)
Make her a card...Your mom shouldn't be playing games like that anyway...it's sure to disappoint.
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maybe take the bus or get a taxy up to the shops and back
You can ask a family member to take you somewhere.:]
ask a grandma grandpa aunt uncle or other relative