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ok so I want to run away. im 16. I have a weird living situation. I live with my mom and step dad for one week and then the following week I live with my dad and I just go back and forth and back and forth..when im at my moms house I am soo miserable..everyone is always arguing..I constantly get yelled at for no reason and I get called fat, lazy, whore, bitch, stupid, etc. I have NO LIFE !! im not allowed to call or hang out with my friends. I am completely controlled by everyone around me. at my dads house, I have nearly no complaints. I want to move in with my dad so bad but my mom says that she wont let me and that if we go to court she can get full custody [making my life even more miserable]. so I feel like the only way to get away from this is to run away. I have some money. the problems are I dont have a car or anything and I dont know where to go. what can I do??
I exactly know how you feel...im like 14 and I want to run away and just live wit my brother..he is 21. And yea ever since my mom has been going out with this guy, everything has been going down hill. He claims I lose his TRUST when there wasnt even trust in the 1st place! When my friends call, he'd tell my friends that im not home which makes me left out of everything..I HATE MY MOM AND MY MOMS boyfriend! my mom cant realize that HE is the one draining out her money...but shes blinded by love I guess??I don't know but I want to run away and live with my reall dad or my brother...iether way..as long as I get out of this family..AND since now were living with my grandma them, its hard...there always picking on me...its always me who gets busted..always me who they yell at..and I dont even do anything..they treat me like SHIT! I hate them..and I hate this stupid law were it states that parents are suppose to take custody no matter what! I mean frik, you cant even stay with your own family member...I hate it I hate it I hate it..their always suspecting that im sneeking out but I dont..I mean I only go out side when im all stressed out..I go out and cry because I cant take it, I hate this family I really do..I really wish people can understand and let me stay with my brother.
Im not so sure, but I think that if you are 16 you have a say in where you live. I could be wrong. If I were you I would talk to my dad about this. Let your dad know how you are feeling, and your plans. Let him know that you are being verbally abused at your moms house.
Do not move out- It will be too hard, and will only make things worse. If talking to your dad does not work, then I suggest concentrating on school, and getting a job thats in walking distance. Save up for a car and college. Then when you are 18 have some sort of a plan. Move away for school. Or move out then, when you are a little more financially secure- and a legal adult.
well I feel da same way I want ta do da same thinq also.my mom married a man when I was 12 years old. my real dad is paralized and so I never wanted my mom 2 get married I also wanted 2 stay wid my dad but mii mom said noe. I HATE my STEP DAD because itz likk every time im rite and he wronq my mom expeect mee ta b quite and not say nothinq but I feel itz not rite I feel as though if ya wronq ya wromq and if ya rite ya rite likk 4 example if I say da sky blue and he say itz green my mamma gone say shut up da shy iz green!
I hate my mom sometimes and want to run away. Adults just don't understand.They don't care about us. They just ask for favors all day and take advantige of you. my mom just told me we could go shopping then said we are not going 5 min. later. If you run away, run away to your friends house... then when your friends mom calls your mom, she'll be worried to death and THEN she actully CARE!!! But if she mad at you... Run away again and again and again and so on.
Running away is no solution - money will run out quick - at the mercy of preditors and others who would rob/take advantage - very cruel out there, especially in these times and probably most important, robbing yourself of a good future because you have no education - it is not greener on the other side - I know it's hard but you can do it, stick it out for 'this too will pass'..the choice you make will come with consequences - make them positive !!
im having the same problem your having im only 11 and I truly am upset were I live I hate my mom and im sick of her! I hope she falls off the highest cliff in the world I can stand her I need 2 leave I want 2 leave and I am. So you should leave when your life is miserable like mine so goodbye. enjoy the rest of your life im moving on by leaving have fun
Maybe you should talk to your dad about my mom does the same thing and she is wroster and I have no body at all so you should maybe talk to your dad about
where do you live? umm if you live in california... maybe we can run away together!!!
emii21 I live in california and im about to run away, call me
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if u go to school talk to ur dad and the school counslor
