What...are some guys really just this nice?

I have this guy friend who I met about 6 months ago. we have always had a flirtatious friendship, but initally he had a girl friend when I met him. a month later, I started dating a guy myself. when my guy friend was with her, he told me that she was a little jealous of me (she was kind of insecure). he also use to call me around 11 pm on saturday nights to ask me random questions and chat. after they broke up, I was still dating the guy I was with and I wasn’t going to break up with him for my guy friend. about a month and a half ago, I did end up breaking up with my boyfriend. My guy friend has always been a real sweet heart to me. he has always been there for me to talk to, tutor me when I fell behind in class, carried my text books to my car in a snow storm, and stayed with me at a hotel when the roads were too bad to drive home so I wouldn’t be alone and bored. in addition, if I lose a money bet to him, he some how reverses the rules so that I win (even though I don’t have an issue owning up to the bet).
I have never given him signs that I like him as more than a friend because I am not really sure that I do. he has never tried to ask me out or advace our relationship either. my question is: are some guys really just that nice or do you think there is a level of interest there?

Answer #1

well I’m a guy and I think that he’s just that nice. but I have no way of knowing.if you know about his family you could see if his dad is the nice guy type because that has a lot to do with it.

Answer #2

its obvious that to an extent he likes you(romantically), Im a good friend but even I wouldnt wind up adjusting rules to bets or some other things. Anyhow, if he is this nice a guy you should go out with him.

Answer #3

It could be that he is just that nice. I have a few really fantastic guy friends that don’t have any romantic feelings towards me, we are just friends, but they treat me with respect and love. I think if he felt more strongly towards you there must be signs. You KNOW if there have been signs. IF you feel like he is crushing on you, but you don’t feel the same way (I dont think you do) then just continue being his friend. It’s ok. But its better to keep a good friend like that rather than ruin it by dating him just because you can.

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