How do I respond to nice guys that are attracted to me?

Ok theres at least 3 guys that really like me and they are like all over me all the time. It makes me a little uncomfortable and really annoyed, but theyre really nice too, so I dont want to be rude…how can I just make them lay off a little bit?

Answer #1

Tell them. If they listen, you will have accomplished your goal. If they don’t listen, then you just found out that they’re really not nice guys at all, and you charge them with sexual assault. That should get their attention. Honestly, if it really bothers you that they’re like this, don’t put up with it. The more you do, the more you are inadvertantly condoning what they’re doing. Guys are simple. If you don’t say ‘no’, they assume you’re saying ‘yes’. There’s rarely a middle ground with us. Hope this helped :)

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