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I have been talking to my friends all day through text messages. I've asked if they can hang out or if they wanna do stuff. They reminded me that they had a Great Pretenders show tonight. I didn't want to go so I just said "Ok, well just let me know if we are going to do anything." I've even waited all day because they said we might do something. Just now, I find out that they went out to eat and my favorite restaurant without me. One of them doesn't even like the place. It makes me mad because I can't go anywhere without them getting mad at me. Should I question them about it like they would do to me? Or should I let it go? I just don't understand why they can do whatever they want, but if I make plans they shut them down. And if I go without one of them they get mad at me.
I totally get what you are talking about, its like that with me too, they are always off doin something and when im with them I most of the time feel like im just an extra. They don even really let me make other ones since im with them a lot but I now had to find time to do that even though im so used to hanging out with them. You should most likely tell them whats up and also start finding friends on the side to rely on other then them.
I get that way to when my friends do something and don't invite me but at the same time you don't have to be with both of them 24/7. if your constantly feeling like a third wheel maybe you should meet new people because then you can be like bump ya'll I got somebody else, atleast that's what I do. hope this helped.
Thanks. I know I don't have to be with them 24/7. But they basically secluded me from other friends so that they are the only three that I have. So now that they've taken away all my old friends, they are all I can rely on.
You sound pretty upset about it so I would confront one of them about it but do not do it angrily because it will not help anything. Explain to them on why it upset you and ask why you were not invited.
