What am I doing wrong with sex ?

well they say sex hurts the 1st time you do it. and I am guessing that it hurts a few times after if your really tight if you keep trying to have sex and it keeps hurting I would go see a doctor but that is only if it keeps hurting maybe try masturbating to losen your self up a little? I am not a girl and would not really know lol but I hope I helped!

He’s too big. Or your too tight. And like the above said it can hurt a couple of times after you have lost your virginity. I think that you should just keep on going slowly, it will get better as you get more expiriance.

It is normal, if you didn’t masterbate a lot it’s possible your hymen was never fully broken, so when you feel it tearing or stretching it kind of is. It’s different for every girl, but sometimes it hurts up to the first 3-4 times and some it only hurts 1 time and some it doesn’t hurt at all. You should get some lube KY, and I promise it will enter with nothing holding it back. Sometimes when teens first start having sex they don’t realize how important it is to be lubed up or be “wet” down there for entry because it can cause damage just trying to push and force it in especially if it’s dry! You boyfriend can also finger you or whatever to get your excited and your body will automatically lube up, but sometimes that is not enough and it doesn’t mean he isn’t turning you on enough when you need extra lube. Good luck!

If its the first time use Lubricant for sure!! let him finger you first then try it shouldn’t hurt that bad…

I use to have endometrosis and it hurt very badly I mean to the point I cried and it was bc there was something wrong with me and had to see a Dr. but look into endometrosis if you don’t have any of the symptoms then its maybe just bc its your first time..

hope everything plans out well.