What am I doing wrong to have a baby?

I have two different views on this,

1. Maybe it’s a sign, maybe it’s not the right time yet? I’m not saying to stop trying, not at all.. but when it’s right it’ll happen. I can imagine how horrid it must feel to know you’re miscarrying, but just think.. it must not have been the right time. Me and my fiance are trying, and we haven’t succeeded yet ( well aunt flow is 2 days late right now, but got a neg test, grr!!!), not as long as you though, we’ve only been trying 5 months. Just stay strong, don’t let it break you down. Stay happy and enjoy trying, the more you relax and just let life take its course the more likely you’ll be to concieve and have a lovely healthy baby. I’m no doctor but that’s what people have told me, our partner friends who were trying found as soon as they stopped ‘trying’ and just let it happen, got preggers straight away! Anyway, view 2, could possibly be that it’s not you thats the problem, it could be him? I’m not sure where you’re from but I’m sure there’s somewhere you can go to get his sperm checked out, make sure theres enough of them and make sure theyre not slow swimmers. Most places you have to be trying for about 1 1/2 to 2 years, so you’d qualify for that.

Good luck hun, hope everything works out for you xxx