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There are 4 of them, the prbolem is that they all love eachother more than me, you know? They dont invite me with them places ever, they always h/o with eachother evrryyy weekend, and there statusus will be like this "at the beach with my faves" when I was never even invited @ all. Ughhh. Pleasseee, I wanna stay friends, so please gimmie things to make tem like me or something, nothing mean plese,m I know im a sucker and should ditch them, but please. :(
just be forward with them. ask why your never invited if your there friend. tell them you think its f*cked up. dont be quiet about it and not let them know, speak up, let it out, and get your point across, otherwise they are just gonna brush it off and keep doing it. if you speaking up doesnt work and they still do it, just ditch them, find new friends, ones that WILL invite you along and want you to be there with them for whatever it is they are planning on doing. find friends who feel worth your time, cause the ones you have obv. dont.
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arww :( I know exactly how you feel.. its really upsetting isnt it. the best thing to do is try and speak to them about it and say how upset its making you feel. nobody wants to get left out of a group. to be honest I think your 'friends' are complete f**kers for doing that! just relax and take one day at a time because I know how stressful it is ennit.. try and make some new friends who love yaa!
You know, sometimes it is hard to get into a group of tightly knit friends. It doesnt make them bad people, it doesnt mean there's anything wrong with you. They just happen to be really close to each other. I wouldnt take it personally. And you dont need new friends. You just need more friends. Friends you can fit in with the way they fit in with each other.
I think you should ditch them. You shouldn't have to do things to get your friends to like you. It sounds like they merely tolerate you instead of being friends.
You should find a new group of friends who like you the way you are.
To borrow a cliche, they just aren't that into you.
my two best friends dont think of me as their best friend, but they invite me everywhere and I dont let it bug me because I know it's nothing im doing wrong.
im still stuck in that problem too... yeah, I know its really frustrating, but your gonna have to wait, and gain more of their trust
well I would tell them how you felt first and if they still did it ditch them
