Is it weird to fantasize about a boy you haven't seen in a long time, and probably won't see in a while?

theres this boy that i have a crush on and i know he likes me to, but the problem is i hardly ever get to see him. he goes to my church every now and then. he use to go regularly but he stop coming sometimes. i tried to add him on facebook a while back since i hardly get to see him in person but he left my request pending forever. I think maybe he was to shy to accept but anyway i got to a point where i just finally decided to cancel my request that i sent to him. but for some reason i cant get him outta my head. im constantly thinkin about him and wondering what hes doing like 24-7. i like him so much but i dont kno wat to do because i dont kno when the next time im going to see him a church or if i will ever see him. do you think he thinks about me like this too? or am i just obsessed with him or something? its so hard to get someone out of your head when you really like them. im always checking his facebook alot to see what hes up too but he’s not active on facebook anymore ever since i canceled out my request to him.

Answer #1

It’s completely normal to fantasize about anyone, no matter if you see them often. Fantasizing is a way of finding out what you want, sometimes the unattainablr. That’s why many people think about celebrities or even fictional characters; because it’s something they will not have and therefore have to imagine it instea.d Perhaps your self-conscious is admitting that things may never happen.

My advice is to maybe keep pending with the request just in case but try not to obsess. I know its hard to not think about something but you can’t stay hung up on this guy forever, it’s not fair on you.

Answer #2

NO i fantasize about the guy i like all the time because i never get to see him!

Answer #3

NO i fantasize about the guy i like all the time because i never get to see him!

Answer #4

I’m sure a lot of people do what you do, even men doing that in regards to women. However I can’t imagine its healthy for you emotionally to do that to yourself or heart.

Answer #5

nope it’s weird to be completly honest i liked this guy and he liked me and i told him that i liked him and he had to move away because his mum wanted too and didn’t see him for 3 years , we are still good friends and i always fantasize about him x

Answer #6

nah its cool

Answer #7

no i think its normal.. do it all the time

Answer #8

agreed but sometimes it make it easier if your not able to see the person that much

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