Should I call him or tell him to get out of my life?

So I was going out with this great guy named Tanner. It all seemed like it was going fine until we started doing more stuff. Then he stopped calling me as much as he used to and never could/wanted to hang out. He dumped me 2 weeks ago cause I guess I never called him and never wanted to see him witch is really untrue. I always called but he told his brother to tell me he wasn’t home and then he would tell me he had to work on a house. I’m way confused cause I found out after we broke up that he likes my best friend and I don’t want that to ruin things between us. And he also told my friend it would be best if I didn’t call him for a while and that we aren’t going to date again cause he just wants to be friends. My other best friend is dating his twin and every time I see him it reminds me of my ex….Help me… Should iI call him or wait for him to call me…should I stay friends or tell him I don’t want him in my life??? Someone tell me what I should do..

                                                                                           -Sarah 

P.s I don’t want to lose him cause the truth is I did it with him my first time and this is the second time he’s wanted to get back with me..but the first time was over the summer for a month and we only m/o and this time it was for 2 months and we went all the way…. :( :( :(