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Was she scared to be happy?

I was dating this girl and she gave me a list of lame excuses to break up. Her biggest excuse is that she’s dealing with a lot of stuff and doesn’t want to bring me down with her. I told her I wantd to be there. I knew about her home life way before we went out. But she broke up with me anyway, then went back to her 3 time x-boyfriend in about 5 minutes or maybe less. Less than a week ago she was talking about how much she hated him. Now here’s the kicker she said she still likes me. She even seemed genuinely happy when we were dating. She also stopped making herself vomit as far as I know while we were going out. She used to go to the bathroom everyday after lunch, but she didn’t when we started going out. I don’t know if that means anything. But her dad is in prison, and her mom is in the hospital. She obviously has a lot to deal with. And due to this she struggles with depression, and things that go with it. I didn’t know if it was possible that she was afraid to get close, and be happy. I mean she did go back to her ex that she already knew wasn’t working.

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Answer #1

I wouldn’t really say shes scared to be happy but more like she feels like she doesn’t deserve to be happy.I think that she likes you more than she really knows but to her I guess it feels like its to good to be true.and she definitely doesn’t want to bring you down with her. she doesn’t see it as you being there for her its more like shes going to take you down with her then your going to resent her even tho I don’t think you would do that but I think that what she might think.then again I don’t know all this for sure becuase im not her and I don’t know if im even making any sense. but I think that she needs a friend more than she needs a relationship and its possible that you can be that friend for her the one to show her and guide her and be there for her no matter what becuase it seem like you car a great deal for her and it seems like she trust you so maybe you can help her through and make her realize shes not alone.

okay im rambling so I hope helped a little bit and I hope everything works out okay and if you need any more help feel free to ask :).

Answer #2

u are good 4 her. she probably already knows that. maybe she went back 2 him because she already knows he’s going to disappoint her. since her life is full of disappoint and pain, that’s what she’s use to. you offered the chance of something better. maybe she doesn’t want the risk of something good, like u, diappointing her. I don’t know if that made sense, but I hoped it helped!

Answer #3

She may be dealing with a lot. but its all about her ex> Thats the reason she didnt want to be with you anymore.

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