How can I ask about his feelings towards me without scaring him?

He is a very closed up guy and he is going into the army in a few weeks, but I really want to know if I should wait or just move on.

Answer #1

If he cares for you then he’ll be happy you asked and gave him a chance to tell you. I think you should just choose a quiet time together and tell him about your feelings and ask him how he feels. It’s better to clear this up now while he is still close to you because once he’s gone he’ll be far away and communication might be difficult.

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