stayed the night with him he said he has me now

honestly it sounds to me like he wants you but he is going to do stuf on the side to. be careful.

After 13 years. you cant possibly know someone again in such a short amount of time. You never gave it a chance for anything to develop without letting your hormones get in the way. Sleeping with him so quickly was not the best move. Even though you are 31, sex isnt going to make a guy fall for you, or commit to you. It is easier to be physically intimate with someone than to be intimate in any of the other four areas. (the emotional, the mental, the social, and the spiritual.)> All five of these parts are designed to work together in harmony. You can become physically intimate with a person of the opposite sex in an hour, or half-hour – it just depends upon the urge! But you soon discover that sex may only be a temporary relief for a superficial desire. There is a much deeper need that is still unmet.

well I called him this past weekend and he said he had to work ealy the next day I said I can still come over and stay the night he said nothing changed the subject. but this gut means a lot to me he really liked me in high school we meat a few times and I stayed the night with him he has no kids lives alone and he told me hes has been looking for me for alng time and I have been looking for him he held me tight all night and said he has me now not never letting me go we had a real great night I cant stop thinkin about him what do you think I should do?

Well you should see him face to face and ask him what is going on. Don’t be nervous or scared about it. You need to know. I don’t think you want to be thinking every night if he’s using you or not. Try to avoid asking him by phone b/c he can easily change the subject, it’s best if you ask him face to face b/c he can’t escape from the question. Especially if your staring right into his eyes.
Stand your ground and get a response from him. I wish you the best if you need any advice funmail me. Hope my advice helps… =)

well I talked to him a hour a go I called him and asked him if there was something between us he said yes I hope so . but he has been hurt in the past and he really likes me he dont want to move to fast I said well we slept together and we just ran back in to each other and we had a great night so where does that leaves us. he said that he wants me to make sure this is what I want.

I think you should back off a bit. if he was telling the truth about being into you and he really has been busy… he’ll call you. If he was lying… he was lying and he just got some, and only answered the phone to get you to quit calling him. the next time he contacts you, you’ll know if he’s into you or if your just a booty call.

well yeah .I mean he held me all that night and rubbed my back played with my hair said he has me now never going to let me go. we had a great time we talked and had fun drank alittle and made love it wasnt just wam bam it was a few hour thing music the whole nine yards it was like a dream come true looked at each other in the eyes and all that good stuff.

Exactly how long did you spend getting to know one another after 13 years?

Well it sounds like he probably did.
How long has it been that he has not answered your calls?

is there any one online write now to ask a question to?