wanting a baby

why do I feel like I want to have a child?? I keep thinking bout it and I cant help it its stupid im stupid so pleaseee slap me or be mean and yell at me!!!

Answer #1

Don’t be silly cover your willy.

Answer #2

slaps! wait like… 10 years? ;) however old you are :D

Answer #3

OMG. I am 14 & I love my little siter and I’d always lovve a child. Depending on your age. depends if you have a job and money atm & if you can risk ot having a job

:)

Answer #4

you are stupid and you should not want a kid they are stinky

Answer #5

I’m the same way its normal apperently

Answer #6

uhm no you should wait until you are responsible and older it doesnt matter if you have a job or a life or any of the garbage its just how sum people are

Answer #7

I don’t like to judge. but I think you too young. babies are a HUGE responsibility. you have to feed them, dress them and then when they grow up you wil have to teach them so that they become capable and well adjusted adults. so it takes a lot of time and effort as well as money for school and all the other stuff. I’m not saying you shouldn’t have children but wait till you at finished school got a proper job/degree and job and can care for yourself and the child properly and comfortable. If you want to be put of of it go google the cost of raising a child. you should get quite scared.

Answer #8

You are only 14 years old! It’s normal to want a child, but you should be mature and smart enough to know that you could not care for a child in the way a mother needs to at such a young age.

-You don’t have health insurance to cover the medical bills, hospital stay, doctor appointments, child’s doctor appointments, emergencies, etc. Your parents insurance does not cover their child’s pregnancy. -You are not even old enough to have a job yet. How would you take care of this child? Did you know that the first year the estimated cost to take care of a baby is 10,000 dollars. Even with a job, it would only be a minimum wage one, and you don’t make that much a year, not even close. -At such a young age, you would not be able to be there for the baby, because you are still in school. It’s not your parents responsibility to raise your child, which is what they would be doing if you had one now, because you are still a child yourself. -Your body is not done growing and maturing yet. Having a child at such a young age is a risk and can cause pregnancy complications. -Being pregnant is not as glam as people think. You have uncontrolable gas, you get stretchmarks that can not be removed, there is hemmroids, abdominal pain, constipation, kicks to the ribs, dizzy spells, having to pee every two minutes, you get sick all day, throwing up, heartburn, sore aching breast, you retain water and your feet and hands swell up and hurt, you can’t sleep because you can’t get comfortable, you have to see a obgyn once a month and get a pap smear, get blood work done, etc. -Do you realize the chances of you 14 year old relationships lasting? It’s less than 10 percent. Then go ahead and add the stress of a baby on top of that, and it’s impossible. -Having a baby puts stress on any relationship. You have money worries, the baby won’t sleep sometimes and your up 24/7 with the crying, etc. It’s not easy.

Answer #9

Don’t do it!! There will be times in your life when you want kids, but you get over it!! I was 19 when I had my first, I fell madly in love with the bloke, still with him now, but it’s not just a baby it’s a lifetime responsibily, Now I’m 25 can’t go out with my friends, infact can’t do anything, can’t travel, can’t buy a house. My friends get to go on holidays and I’m stuck at home. My Mum said once “You don’t know what worrying is until you have a kid” and it’s true all you do is worry about them…Don’t do it, go buy a pet instead!!!

Answer #10

no.. every1 has a child tennager goes threw a fase bt wanting a baby

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