I am only 14 and I was dumb enough to go out and have sex with a guy I barely knew after my boyfriend dumped. I do not know what to do because I can not tell my mom about this. She will put me in foste care. I can not go to the clinic because I do not have a ride up there. Help someone. I am so scared
she shouldnt put you in a foster clinic but if you cant talk to your mum talk to your dad, a relative, a teacher or a friend or older sibling you can NOT deal with this by yourself you do NEED soemone elses help ask a friend, parent, relative, teacher, ect to drive you to the doctors were you get have an abortion keep in ind that an abortion is not cheap there a few hundred dollars if you havent found out if your pregnant yet then first you need to do that by taking a pregnancy test to find out if your pregnant take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks after you had sex (any sooner and the results won’t be accurate) in the morning with your first pee is the best time and take it when your period is due alternatively, see a doctor for a blood test this will both let you find out quicker and give you more accurate results and next time remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education
We all have made mistakes in our lives and you think this will cause your mother to put you in fostercare...but please tell your mother. She is your first line of support and will help direct you to care that at you age you know nothing about. If you don't want this baby, I just want to say that adoption is the best option. Just pray and hang in there.
Pls tell your parent, you need help at this critical point. But pls go for pregnancy test to be sure you are pregnant. Be careful next time.
I think you will have to tell your parents...
