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We dont trust each other

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, love each other very much and we get on well and have fun together. The problem is we dont trust eachother, I dont trust him because he has text girls in the past behind my back and he is a flirt and he dont trust me because he has said he is worried I will do what he has done so its guilt really. He says I cant go out with friends on the town if I am with him and if he wanted 2 go out on the town I would not like it. Well I would not and I no I cant argue with him but its only because I dont trust him. He is a good boyfriend he dont drink/smoke and has a really good job, but im confused weather to stay with him if we dont trust eachother.

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Answer #1

hii, well I’ve been in the same situation as you if you dont trust him and if he dosent try to gain your trust its not worth it cause all both of you are going to do is just argue with eachother everytime you guys want to go out with friends trust is a big deal in a relationship and if you dont have that the relationship gets really hard to deal with the way I see it he broke your trust soo if he dosent try to gain it back then honestly all you can do is just find someone who appreaciates your trsut hope I was a lil bit of help hope all turns out good Bye!

Answer #2

Trust is a very important part of a relationship. Without it, the relationship will fall apart. Ya’ll are obviously having problems, and it seems as though they were caused by him. You really need to sit down with him and talk to him, tell him how you feel about everything. Ya’ll need to talk about trying to trust each other more. If you cant then you shouldnt be together.

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