im an 18 year old virgin, I've did everything with a girl apart from sex. however, I have attempted to have sex but I have trouble positining myself properly whilst putting my penis into her virgina. I know she can always go on top but I want to be on top of her.
how can I 'position myself properly so I can at least just put my penis into her virgina whilst on a bed'?
OK. Not a very erotic description I'm afraid but hopefully useful.
Obviously there should be a lot of kissing and carressing leading up to this moment but I am just going to dwell on your specific question:
1) Ensure the girl is very turned on by lots of foreplay.
2) Girl lays on back on bed, knees bent and legs apart.
3) Guy kneels in front between females legs.
4) Guy (or girl) takes hold of the penis (with condom on) and rubs it along the slit of her vagina to stimulate lubrication and to lubricate the top of the penis. (allowing easier entry)
5) Girl guides the tip of the penis between her vaginal lips.
6.) When the girl is ready, she should ask you to press your penis forward very gently.
7) Push back and forth with your penis just an inch or so at a time as this will lubricate more of your penis and assist her vagina to become more lubricated.
8) When she is ready, girl to ask you to push in a little more at a time using short back and forth strokes.
9) Once you are in as far as it is comfotable for the girl, continue to move your penis in and out of her vagina in longer thrusts while laying on top of her.
10) Dont put your whole weight on her, support your body weight on your hands or elbows while you are making love.
Just continue in this manner and communicate with each other to ensure maximum pleasure for both of you.
Deeper, faster thrusts, slower thrusts etc... whatever feels good for you both.
OK, there is a lot more to it and the above is just a very simplified answer to your question but maybe a good starting point for you.
Kiasu
it might be a good idea to put a pillow underneath her pelvis so its lifted up a bit that might help you get in a lot easier
