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how do i know its time for a break?

my bf and i have beenn a lil rocky lately.. i love him but he is very physical, not sexual, he loves to hold hands and cuddle and im the opposite not that i dont like to cuddle, i just have personal space.. when i tell him he takes it personally wat should i do? also, i have a lot on my plate andhe seems to add more… ugh i need help!!!

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Answer #1

Just tell him straight out you want to take a break, not breaking up but just not be by each other for like a week or two. Tell him you need some personal space and time to deal with the current stuff you are dealing with. He might take it personal but when he does, just tell him not to be worried and you don’t want to lose your relationship from it being “rocky”. If he seems to adding more stress on you, tell him to stop complaining about things for once and focus on helping you for a little while. Tell him what’s going on and what you need help with. Communication always works best in a relationship. Hope I helped. =)

Answer #2

thanks a lot, we talked it over and everything is fine now thanks a bunch :]

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