if your with someone are you willing to give them your facebook password and let them look threw your phone? i was just wondering how other people thought about this cause im dating a guy and i let him have my password for my facebook and i dont mind him going on mine cause i have nothing to hide but then again he should trust me and i dont know if thats really necessary since ive only been with him for 2 months... but anyways would you be willing to give someone your dating your facebook password and your phone? or would you like your personal space?
My boyfriend and I are like that too. We have each other's passwords, for pretty much everything lol, neither of us have anything to hide. It's not like we even go on each other's emails, or facebook, or phones or whatever to check up on each other. It just kind of happened, I would ask him to help me check if an important email was sent to me, or he would ask me to help him pay off a bill and we just ended up with each other's passwords. We just trust each other. I definitely don't think it's necessary especially if it were out of insecurity or distrust but to be honest, in my situation anyways, it makes me happy that he trusts me so much and that he has nothing to hide either.
I don't feel like I need my boyfriend's password and he doesn't feel like he needs mine. I'd be offended if he asked for my password as if I were trying to hide something. I have nothing to hide, but I don't think I'd give it to him because I don't like the idea of it. He can go on my facebook if he wants to through my computer or my phone if he wants to.
We know the passwords to each other's phones, but that's so that we can use each other's phones if we need to, not so that we can snoop through each other's text messages or anything.
I have access to my boyfriend's facebook just through his computer, but I don't go through it. I trust him.
Lol i dont have anything to hide. But i like to have my own personal space. I think its stupid giving each other passwords for stuff lol. Its kind of too much for me, i'd feel like they don't trust me. I guess it can increase the trust thing but i wouldn't mind having him look over my shoulder while i use Facebook or my phone, but no matter how long my relationship may be, i wouldn't give him my password. Thats just my opinion and my thoughts:3 haha password is just way too much for me. I like my personal space :)
ya thats kinda how i feel but i dont think i would ever go on my bfs but he hasent gaven it to me since i havent asked like i feel just being open to do it makes me feel better like he trusts me but i doubt i would ever go on his i have his ps3 account password since we play games but i have never once looked through his messages since i trust him but he has looked through mine he goes on my facebook alot n asks like who im talking to like how ik them but ik hes that way cause he has been cheated on
I like my space. o-o I've never been in a relationship, but I don't think I would want to give him my password for FA or for all my emails xD I guess it wouldn't matter much unless he was some kind of freaky control freak and got all upset about everything and anything but anyway. If you feel comfortable with that and he doesn't start going through everything of yours because he doesn't trust you then good for you xD
:/ I don't think it's good if it's out of distrust. But I suppose sometimes it could help. With my boyfriend and I it just kind of happened, he'd ask me to help him send an email or check the numbers in his bank account and end up giving me all his passwords and the other way around too. If he was cheated on I think it was probably out of insecurity.
I don't feel like it's necessary, but if it makes either one of you more comfortable then it's fine. My boyfriend has access to everything of mine (not by my choice, he just happens to have guess everything.) and I don't have any of his information on anything, but I don't really care because I have nothing to hide and I'm sure he doesn't either.
ya i understand what you mean like you trust each other enough that you don't need to ya i was kinda feel like he dident trust me but just wanted to see what other people thought about it
Yeah, it's just weird. I don't like feeling like someone is going through my stuff, like they don't trust me or anything. He should be able to respect my boundaries, and I'll respect his.
janice u have a point BUT keep in mind u and mike have a LONG term relationship and even thinking about marriage but for a 2 month relationship i honestly dont think its necessary.
I said it wasn't necessary I don't even think its necessary in my relationship bit it just makes me happy haha.
I've got nothing to hide, but I like my privacy in some things.. If he asked if tell him that..
Don't mind, you can totally go on there. It does feel a little weird though I must admit. :)
ya i was kinda thinking that like you have no privacy if he can look through everything