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The right girl will come to you!

I hate when girls try and tell me the right girl will come to me. Give it time. Pisses me off so bad. It would be different it I hadn’t heard it a million times before but no its always the smae damn thing. So forgive me ladies is I don’t by that bullshit.

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Answer #1

Zak, you’re quite right, it’s one of those annoying things that people say without any thought, and it’s generally not helpful advice. It’s called a platitude and it’s said either to shut you up or because it’s not easy to give advice on such a thing.

The problem is, getting a girlfriend isn’t quite like posting a job vacancy and sifting through applicatiions. And you also aren’t going to be able to sit at home waiting for Miss Perfect to knock on the door. But you already know that.

I’d suggest broadening your interests and socializing as much as possible with large groups of people. It sounds a bit cheesy to say that when you’re not looking, thats when you’ll find one, so don’t look. But it really means, don’t let that be your focus. As you mix more with people, your confidence will show, through your eyes and your smile.

There really are many “right” girls out there for you, not just one. But you have to be an instigator. She’s not going to drop into your lap :)

Answer #2

How old are you anyway’s? I can tell you this when you are not looking for ms right she will fall on your lap before you know it.

Answer #3

I hate it when some one says something like that it makes you feel so shi*y about yourself and makes you feel like your not good enouf for that person

why cant people be straight up weather it hurts or not if I broke it of with my boyfriend I wouldnt say that to him

Answer #4

Yeah that really helped. Thanks lou, but seriously. No guy wants to f*cking hear that and I’m not in a rush. I’m actually ouy of the game right now I’m just tired of hearing it and seeing people say it to other people on here.

Answer #5

well get out there! stop sitting online complaining about how you cant find a girl. obviously you wont on here! you need to put out, work what you have, and girls like the chase.

TEASE HER! if you tease, and make her want you, your in business!

the truth is, the right girl is not just going to come to you. im sorry. thats a lie. girls are hearing the same thing. “oh dont worry about him. the right guy will come to you.” girls are sitting around waiting for the right guy to come to them. so try this: you be the right guy for her. there is one girl out there waiting just for you! go find her (:

Answer #6

Hey let me tell you guy’s something I am a very attractive female and when I was single guy’s would rarely approach me, I couldn’t figure it out for nothing, you will know who is right for you, it took me a long time to find the right person, you just don’t want to end up with just anybody, I rather be single than to be with someone who is going to be good to me at first then mistreat me.

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