Okay, so A LOT has been going on lately verbal abuse wise and tons other.
So first and foremost, my mother is going EXTREMELY out of bounds with her "discipline". I see how a spanking here and there is okay, but it has gotten to the point of spanking to where my little sister is STRUGGLING TO BREATH! Yet if my little brother gets a spanking, she goes off on my dad for doing so, when his spanking isn't even a tenth of what my sister gets. I have managed to avoid the spankings for a while now, but locking myself in my room all the time is not my picture of an ideal childhood...
Secondly, she has threatened to make me put dawn in my mouth, which can make it so you cannot breathe because it dries your mouth out so much that it blocks your airways. All because something fell on my foot and I said "dammit" because it hurt! And it isn't like I was using is AGAINST anyone in an uncalled for manner.
She has threatened to break my sisters fingers for helping around the house, and is constantly on her back about schoolwork, which is terrible because she is trying so hard! Then when I get a report card with grades worse than hers she just tells me I better get them up. See how unfair that is?
Is she going out of line with the disciplining? But it doesn't end there. She has let my father punch my arms on three occasions when he was angry at me (I don't remember why) once hard enough to draw blood on a small area. When my brother bit me hard enough to leave a bruise, she just brushed it off and told me to get over it.
My dad stood up for me then, and told me to bite him back, which I didn't want to do because he was only three at the time. So I said no and he said to or he would do it himself. He ended up doing it himself...
Then once recently, I had been putting dishes away and mom came in yelling at me for no reason and when I tried to reply she told me to shut up. Then my brother came up and yelled "YEAH. Shut up CHILD!" Like he was my parent...
I ended up throwing the bowl I was holding down and screaming at him to shut up and that he wasn't my parent, and she proceeded to grab me by the arm and shove me into the living room and beat me up a bit and when I tried to fight back she called my dad into the room and acted like she hadn't done anything and then said that I attacked her. *sigh*
This is getting out of hand. She treats my brother like an angel, and destroys my confidence. I can't do a thing without being yelled at. Well, that is how it used to be... Now my sister is getting all the weight on her shoulders. My mom won't stop, because everything has to be her way. It hurts to see my sister go through that.
But I have a baby brother to and don't want to risk us getting split up. All of my siblings I mean... Except my younger brother. (the one that isn't the baby) I could care less about what happens to his sorry spoiled ass.
I don't want us to get split up... Is there a way I can stop this hell without leaving?
(Ps. I will be changing this ? to something untraceable by her incase she sees this... who knows what "discipline" she will make way with then...)
Thanks ahead of time guys...
Call child services. They'll first see if a family member can take you in before taking you away. If not they may & try to get ppl to take you together first before splitting you up.
If anything just make a free e-mail on mail.com that everyone can remember & contact each other that way so that way you can stil contact & see each other. Though you may not be living with each other, in the long run it's better for you mentally & physically.
What happens if your mother goes too far one day not realizing & beats your younger sister to death
Or poisons you by having you detergent. Do you really thing yuou can afford to stay there to find out?
Your post was painful just to read. You need to contact Child Protective Services. Your parents are doing a lot of emotional damage to you and your siblings. Nobody should have to put up with being treated this way.
Maybe you could talk to another family member? Grandma, grandpa, aunt, uncle, etc. They may be able to shine some light into the situation without risking the possibility of splitting up.
Thanks Almira. I think I will talk to my uncle tomorrow. He is really the only one I know I could tell without making a HUGE deal out of it.
that is the problem though, is we would get split up, and I really don't want that to happen..