you DONT, your not ready. your a 13 year old kid, you dont know about sex, stds, contraception, pregnancy ect. and as you said, this is just some boy, as most likley he just wants to have sex with you, after all hes got raging hormones and thats all hes thinking about, one you have sex with him hell probably go have sex with other girls, because hes not ready or interested in a relationship, and after all, hes not even your boyfreind, hes just soem boy. dont have sex, your NOT ready
remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens like YOU get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education
When I was about fifteen my first boyfriend told me that he wanted to have sex with me. I freaked out and said no, all I could think about was what if I got pregnant and how weird our relationship would get. We still stayed together for a few years and never went that far. I am glad I didn't because things would have been strange between us. Besides that I was able to give myself to my boyfriend I had when I was nineteen... who is now my husband. So even though I had sex before marriage, my hubby was still my first. I'm glad that I gave that to my husband and not anyone else. Think about it, all the consequences that would come out of it. I loved my first boyfriend but not the way I love my hubby, so think about waiting and make sure you are totally in love with the guy you want to give yourself to.
At your age, I don't think you're ready. You may be ready to have sex, but are you ready to have a baby? How about the STDs you might get? Are you ready to see him go if he just wanted sex from you? It might feel like you're ready, but you're only ready when you know what can happen after.
I'm 17, and still a virgin. I don't feel ready yet. I'm older than you, and I don't even think I can handle a child financially, let alone the mother and myself all at the same time. I've been there though, I've had the urge to have sex before, but I controlled myself. Why? Because I'm better than that. I know you're better too.
If you feel ready, then go ahead. All I can say is: use protection, be safe, and make sure he's the right person. It's not something you can get back once it's gone.
Dont say you want get pregnant. There is always a chance. A condom could break, the pills could fail, etc. Never say Never. Please dont ever say something want happen to you, because I did that and a bunch of things I said that about happened. Take your time. Your still very young, and a little girl. I lost my virginity at 16. A lot of the younger generation now is getting way over their heads with sex, the way they dress, and the way they are acting. Be a kid and dont be in such a rush to be an adult. Have fun.
dont do it even if u "think u love him" ur feelings may change later on. its a better idea to wait at ur age. im sure ur probly a cute girl who is just confused. if not confused its wiser to wait. sex is only temporary and ur first time its gonna hurt so make sure you wont regret it when u finally meet your true love....
You are 13, its way to early, as much as you think you are ready, you are not. Are you going to be able to support a child were you to get pregnant?? what about possible stds? You are too young to be doing this stuff, there is so much time in the future for you to engage in such activities.
i just recently got out of a relationship with a boy i dated for 3 months..he was still a virgin at the time and i wasnt and he wanted to have sex so we did .........2 months after that we broke up because i found out he was just using me for sex...so watch out for boys like that
no your too young, youll regret it later trust me, its not even about the risks right now its about the fact that you are to young to make such a big decison, even girls at 16 who are just having sex regret it so just imagine how you will feel
Your too young. Wait. At 14 you shouldnt even have this thought in your head. This guy probably only wants sex from you anyhow. If he gets that from you he will eventually leave, because he got what he wanted.
u shud do it if u want to.jst as an experience.also ask him to lick ur boobs.trust me u'll fell grt
yes i agree with you "thehellwithyou" you still got a long way to go gurl! take it easy :)
make sure you lovee him and are sure your ready.
im nt ganna get pregant nd im 14 lol
im 15 i dunoo hw to change thaa
im15, dunno why it says 13:L