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What am i supposed to do about my friend?

I pretty much put my life on hold for 2/3 months a while back, to look after my friend when she had an abortion, and now that I need her, (really badly) shes not there for me, she wont leave her boyfriends side because shes scared hel cheat on her again, its been 5 months or more since he did it, if shes gonna be wiht him she neds to get over it. I cant describe how much i need her friendship right now and shes not here for me…is there any point in keeping the friendship if she is incapable of doing for me, what i did for her?

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Answer #1

Someone who is not there when you need them should have you when they need you either. She should not do that to you since you were there by her side when she needed you & obviously her relationship isn’t going so well since there’e no trust. I wouldn’t get rid of the friendship completely just don’t depend on her and tell her how you feel. Just let her know that when she needs someone they might not be there for her either.

Answer #2

It’s sad when someone you think is a friend lets you down. Move on. Find a real friend. This girl is not your friend and will never be your friend. You now know she is merely an acquaintance.

Answer #3

thank you x

Answer #4

thank you x

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