I am bisexual I know that I am not confused about anything. When I think about 'adult-fun' later on in my life. I get scared about things like his 'stuff' but I don't have a problem with her 'girlfriends' or lower friend. Do I have a phobia with sex or is this just something that will go away over time?
I am also bisexual. I know how you feel. The actual psychological reason behind it is because she has what you have. You know how you like to be touched, talked to and treated. It actually seems easier, where as men are a little more forien. You will make mistakes with guys, the best way is to just relax and go with what feels right. Its always awkward at first, and it may take a few men, but when you find the right one you will open up. It always helps if you are with the guy a long time and know him and trust him and have a deep relationship with him, and then when you get to that point in your relationship, ask him what he likes, ask him to tell you or show you how he likes to be held or touched. It will make it easier for you. Have his hand guide yours, it makes it sensual for the both of you and it will make it easy for you to get a feel for what he wants. Its all about experiance and being able to try new things. I am sure you will over come
I thing having the phobia about sex is not something bad, for me is normal, personally I dont like to even think about anathing to have to do with sex, thet fact is just discusting and what not to me. I think stuff like that goes away with time, once you get to know it a little better and your a bit more expose to it you will see a little bit more to it?
