How do I stop looking goth and look girly?

I wear alot of black. i wear sweatpants or skinny jeans alot. So i have my hair either straight, or 3barreled. My hair is kinda frizzy to.I wear dark makeup, like i have no confidence with out dark blue eyeshadow, mascara, and eyeliner on. i usually look goth but it’s how i feel confident. alot of people think i look to emo. Im actually really girly. i love pink and im really sweet. I want to change my image. How can i look girly? I already know i have to work on smiling alot. and laugh. Anything else? Please help

Answer #1

dont wear really dark clothes and makeup all the time, try wearing your hair curly and naybe a few skirts and dresses here and there

Answer #2

Don’t change yourself too much. You should do what makes you feel like you. In anyways if you really want to, wear less make up, and maybe wear brighter colours and more normal jeans than skinny jeans (like bootleg or something). Also you could go for dresses (hate the things myself), that should help make you look girly.

Answer #3

Try wearing paler shades such as pale blue. Wear more flowery jewelery but you can still wear skinny jeans. Use less eye liner and try using a different colour eye liner. Just use pale colours and wear clothing that isn’t baggy on you and flatters your curves.

Answer #4

Also a way to be more confident is to join clubs outside of school with people you don’t know from school. That way it gives you time to find new friends and have the confidence to do things on your own.

Answer #5

change to a lighter blue or a pink eyeshadow, dont wear eyeliner all around ur eye(maybe just on the top) invest in a good shampoo tht takes ur hair from being frizzy to a cute curly look. curls help make a girl look girl. maybe a pink lip gloss would help alot. and for clothes, as long as ur face and hair look girly, it dosnt really matter for clothes wise. start painting your nails a brighter colour like pink or green or yellow.

Answer #6

umm my name is princess laya and i umm i run landolakes spredable butter of my V SPOT it greases the hinges if your no what i mean and i eat coconu shells while i do this it realaxes me greatly so i can preform in front of obiwan conoby and my pet fish eragon it inspires them to do more creative things such as artestry and photography

Answer #7

Wearing flowery clothes is always cute. Try wearing lighter shades of clothes, instead of dark clothes. Hair tends to look girlier when its curly or maybe you could try some bright hair bands to match you other clothes. Painting you fingernail bright pink or blues seem girly. Less make-up for sure. You pretty much have to play around with it and see what looks best on you. When it gets warm out is a good time to once in a while bring out a cute dress… Hope this helped - Katie :D

Answer #8

So I was goth from the time I was in 8th grade until my first year of college. its a way of life and a comfort of style. You can be a combination of both. ease your way into it so you dont lose yourself. Try leggings with a zombie dress and curls. Paint your nails according, like a green zombie with glitter. You can always use black as your basic color, such as a black tripp or lip service skirt with a white or colored screen tee and matching bows on black stockings or in your hair or tied around your wrists. I did it for years ^_^. Best of luck

Answer #9

Well, I’m a guy, so you’d be able to answer the question yourself better than I could. Honestly I couldn’t care less how someone chooses to dress.

“Just do it.” “Yeah, I know…”

Just by you asking this question, I can tell something about you: You are concerned with how other people see you. Otherwise you wouldn’t be asking this now would you? ;) It’s not a bad thing, it’s just how people are. People care what others think because they want to know there are people there for them that care about them. It’s not so much vanity as it is caring about others. It’s just sometimes… We get a little caught up in it.

The thing about changing your image is that people are going to see you differently: “I didn’t know you liked pink.” “I would have taken you for some who liked pink.” But you love pink!

You’ve already got people in your life who like you, right? They like you the way you are. so maybe if you’re different from the way you are now they wont like you? Nonsense! But that’s the feeling in the back of your mind: “What if…”

I don’t know anything about being girly, but I know it takes a lot of resolve to change how other people see you. It’s not something you’ll do just by someone telling you to, “Just do it.”

Answer #10

Paint your nails pink or purple(a light color) buy girly clothes this summer like from aeropostale, hollister, buckle, abercrombie, delias, and wear your hair curly, maybe straight with cute hair clips. Obj most important always match your clothes no matter what

Answer #11

Thankk you ! (: this actuallyy helped like alot. im going to start trying it

Answer #12

Omg! Do not wear pink or blue eyeshadow! That’s horribly unattractive makes you look like a clown! But I wear like a dark grey and it matches everything just try something natural and something that complements your eyes like if they’re brown wear blue eyeliner.. Green wear purple eyeliner.. Blue wear brown..

Answer #13

Your welcome! Have fun :D

Answer #14

Personally, I think emo (not goth) looks girly and sweet. But what do I know? Lol

Answer #15

i just said tht cuz she already wears dark eyeshadow everyday and if shes addicted u hav to slowly go lighter then just dramaticly stop. and i said light eyeshadow, not bright. and i duno if u kno how to apply it but i never look like a clown wen i apply it. maybe u should switch to lighter shades.

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