how do i know if i sould let my boyfriend go?

i have this boy friend and we’ve been dating for 7 months now, and im noticing somethings diffrent about him, idk if he’s changed or if im just discovering on who he really is…. -he’s very immture -spacey, almost like he’s on drugs -overly “touchy” -and we dont have much fun as we did when we use to be friends i dont want to hurt him… because i love him too much. i just dont think he’s the one for me anymore. what should i do?

Answer #1

If you don’t feel like it’s right, but you still love him you should talk to him about it first Sarah. Sit him down and if he makes an effort to change then stay a while longer, but if he doesn’t show any signs of changing, maybe you need to make a clean break. Just tell him that he’s not the same and that you’d rather be friends.

Answer #2

If you really feel like you guys aren’t getting anywhere with your relationship, you do need to end it. I know you don’t want to hurt him, but staying with him when you don’t want to will only hurt him more. You either learn to accept his flaws, or move on.

Answer #3

If you really feel like you guys aren’t getting anywhere with your relationship, you do need to end it. I know you don’t want to hurt him, but staying with him when you don’t want to will only hurt him more. You either learn to accept his fl@ws, or move on.

Answer #4

If you really feel like you guys aren’t getting anywhere with your relationship, you do need to end it. I know you don’t want to hurt him, but staying with him when you don’t want to will only hurt him more. You either learn to accept his flaws, or move on.

Answer #5

Find a real male.

Answer #6

Try to talk to him about his changes. Maybe he’s trying to masquerade his conflicts with immaturity and spaciness. Assure him that you’ll do whatever it takes to help him so that you two can get back on track. If he still acts the same, then I’m afraid you need to break it to him and say he’s not the person you loved 7 months ago.

It’s going to hurt the both of you, I won’t lie. But sometimes, a breakup will reveal the true feelings. Maybe he thinks you’re too afraid to leave him, or that you’re too passive around him letting him get away with being a child. Show him that you’re serious about this relationship and if he doesn’t want to take you seriously, then you need a man who does.

Aleksandr, Future USMC 0321

Answer #7

If you really feel like you guys aren’t getting anywhere with your relationship, you do need to end it. I know you don’t want to hurt him, but staying with him when you don’t want to will only hurt him more. You either learn to accept his flaws, or move on.

Answer #8

Maybe u could try talking to him about your feelings about how he’s acting and ask him if this is really you. If it is then maybe he would be willing to change for you. I mean you do love him and there are always problems in relationships maybe it’s just something he’s going through.

Answer #9

Hm, well first thing you should do is talk to him. Let him know he’s not acting the way he did 7 months ago. Maybe he’s in a conflict with family or feelings inside himself so he feels like he needs to act like a child to not let you see something deeper. About the immaturity, tell him he’s acting too childish and you want him to be serious about things.

I can see you love this guy a lot, and you need to tell him to tell you what’s going on because you’re concerned for him. Assure him in a relaxing way that you can help him if he’s troubled. If the problem persists and he just acts like a child for the hell of it, then tell him “Look, I love you. You’re amazing and all, but I need someone who can be serious. I don’t need a partner who is acting like a child, if I wanted a child, I would have my own.” That sounds harsh, but if that’s what you have to do, then so be it.

As for being touchy, he needs to stop. If it makes you feel uncomfortable tell him to stop or slow down. But again, if he still keeps touching then tell him you want to go.

I don’t like to see when people in relationships just jump to “He/she is conflicted, my turn to breakup” situations. I would talk to him first and see if it can change him. If not, then you deserve better and you will certainly have better.

Aleksandr, Future USMC 0321

Answer #10

Talk to him ad ask him how he feels about ya’lls relationship. How does he feel its going. If hes not what you want, you need to tell him and not let him think you feel the same exact way as he does. Thats pretty much leading him on in ya’lls relationship. Tell him how you feel. Dont lie to him or try to decieve him. Truth is best way to go. ^-^ !!!GOOD LUCK!!! ^-^

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