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Slept together but now what?

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Met this guy at uni nearly 3 months ago, he's 21, I'm 18. (I've never had any sort of relationship with anyone before)

I wasn't remotely attached at 1st but after telling me he likes me etc I started to fall for this guy & long story short 3 weeks ago after saying it wasn't going to happen (I was planning on saving myself till marriage:/) we slept together.

Everyone I know had warned me about this guy & admittedly deep down I understand why -he's involved with certain things, he doesn't take me out, he doesn't contact me consistently..BUT he is my first everything. I've never been so close to anyone before & when we are together he makes me feel special.

The holidays are nearly over so I'm soon back to uni which means we will be around each other again..

I have no idea what to do! I like him but do I tell him I like him? Do I say I deserve better & stop talking to him? Or do I just carry on seeing him like this?

I don't know whether he is seeing other girls *im not seeing anyone else* if he was I wouldn't want to be with him because I don't like the idea of FWBs

Sorry, I don't even know if any of this even makes sense lol. I'm just so confused..any advice whatsoever?