Since I found out ... all I want to do is cry

u should brake the ice between you and your sis because your gana need her later on and shes ganna need u.n it dont matter what she is thats family and you lover her.and you cant always lisen 2 rumars until you see it your self and if she is you have 2 excep it

I’m still confused. Why does her sexual orientation mean you have to DO anything? Why does whom she achieves orgasm with have any effect on your life? Frankly, the idea that you’re thinking so feverishly about what your relatives are doing with their genitals is what you should be most concerned about.

And can we PLEASE stop saying things like “it’s her choice”? It’s 2009, for God’s sake, people. How much evidence do you need that homosexuality has a biological basis (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7456588.stm) to convince you that’s it’s not a choice any more than eye color or kidney size is a choice?

look, family is generally not the first place a person who is gay or bi will disclose to first… it’s a HUGE risk, because these are, after all the people who are most important to you, so you have the most to lose, does that make sense? so dont take it personally… and it’s ok, when I found my friend was gay from someone else, I started to cry (mostly upset at the fact that I had to find out like that). You dont do anything. Just give her time. Maybe she doesnt even know what her orientation is yet. So how’s she going to come tell you if she doesnt know yet? Just be patient. She’ll tell you eventually…

well yooh know what if your sister is lesbian or not yooh shouldnt be feeling so baldly eitherr way she your sister and dey aint nun yooh cn do 2 change that…you have been wit hur forever and de least yooh cn do is ask hur don’t get feed up wit de things oder pplz say and remember that family is first so if she is deres onlii 1 thing yooh cn do and datz love hur de way she is ok!

just love her and let her come to you when she’s ready to share her thoughts and feelings. don’t judge her. if you’re ashamed or uncomfortable about the hand holding; why not talk to Laura’s friend. sounds like she’s reaching out to you. what business is it of these ^loads of people^ if she does prefer the love of another female? do you butt into their love-lives?most likely you don’t. chin up. she’s still your sister who loves you.

Well who cares if your sister is a gay , Like you said you dont care but if you wanted to cry then what part of this is upsetting you ? Well just think of it this way its her life and who cares what people think as long as you love her and so does the rest of the family . And I know it may seem like shes not telling you some thing and that might up set you but give her time . Yours truly, Demika Ray

why should it bother you that your sis could be a lesbain. its her choice if she is. if she wants to tell you she’ll tell you when the time is right. she might not be telling you because she thinks u’ll freak out. its natural to feel freaked out if someone you love a gay or straight but remember it doesn’t change them.

I’m sorry, I’m confused. Why exactly are you feeling so badly? Because your friends are gossiping about your sister?