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How do I tell my parents I want to move out?

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ok well heres the situation.

I live in australia and im 17. no im not those immature 17 years olds that say they want to move out because they cant go to parties or whatever. thats just stupid.

I've had enough, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and we have found a cheap house to live in,. we have furniture and both have jobs. The reason I want to move so badly is because I cant take it at home any more..

I really think my parents are crazy, here are some examples : my mum yells at me when I buy myself food for work and tells me that she will buy it for me and not to waste my money.. but when I tell her to buy somthing she gives me her hand and asks for the money.

she always tells me that I hate her.. I dont no where she gets it from

she never buys me things or financially supports me in any way. but yet my little sister can get a new pair of shoes each month when I have a pair for two years,

she lies about my boyfriends parents and tells me they hate me and they lie to me.. the stupid thing is my boyfriends mum got both my parents jobs after they couldnt get any for over 5 years!

my mum wants to kick me out at 18. but im not waiting that long

my dad threatens to kill me

my mum cries at any sign of an arguement from me

my mum starts arguments whenever I try to start a conversation with her.

they have told me they 'don't have to help me in any way and they don't benefit from me'

this is only the tip of the ice burg. I cant take this anymore. I don't stay out late I don't do drugs I don't drink I don't swear I never do anything wrong but yet my mum calls me a bitch I just wont and cant take anymore. so I have a house ready. enough money, enough furniture and my boyfriends parents are supporting us.

the only thing im afraid of is my mum.. she knows how to get to me. as soon as she doesnt get her way she cries and screams and says 'why do you treat me this way' im movin out in a week. how do I tell these people who treat me like im a shameful burden