Should I say yes or no?

Ok so im going out w/this guy since this march 1st and ever since we started going out weve made out but the making out is vey intense! I mean he makes this liitle noise that turns me on fast when we kiss and then he just gets so turned on as well!!! Weve been talkin bout ‘makin love’ for a couple of days now and yesterday he asked me if we could go out and do it somewhere… I really want to do it because he seriously has me wet everytime im with him and b/c I havent had sex in like a month and im seriously addicted to sex but at the same time im not sure because I’ve already had sex w/2 boys and those boys meant a lot to me in my love life and I feel like adding another one makes me sound too slutty! Also yesterday I asked him w/how many girls hes been with and he said about 13 or 14 and that he doesnt remember the rest and that kinda freaked me out because I’ve heard that when you have sex w/someone your also doing it w/all the people hes done it w/and im kinda scared because im not so sure that he wants to be serious w/me!! He says that he wants something serious w/me but I don’t know if he might b using me!! What should I do???

Answer #1

Doesnt the amount of girls hes been with tell you anything? Your just going to be another notch in his belt! Just because your horny doesnt mean you have to have sex. You havent even been together that long. All you two have going to for is lust, and lust is ground zero for hormones, not love, besides love takes a long time to develop. In the beginning of a relationship, it can be hard to tell whether you’re in lust or love; whether you may be “The One,” or merely a passing fancy who’ll have your blood boiling for only a short while. This is because men are perfectly capable of engaging in sex before they forge emotional bonds with a woman –

Lust is especially dangerous because it causes a man to think with his crotch and throw all reason and logic to the wind. When a man’s in lust he doesn’t care if he and his partner have anything in common. He’s not interested in where she comes from or where she’s going. His brain is only focused on using his key to unlock the door to the secret cave.

Bad Reasons for sex: · A need for sex. · You want the person to love you. · Social pressure to perform. · Nothing more to talk about. · Boredom. · A curiosity to find out if there’s any chemistry. · You want to make someone else jealous. · To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner. · You’re challenging a dare. · An attempt to solidify the relationship.

Answer #2

he may just be trying to show off? hes propbly just using all those girls IF! he has slept with them and yer you wil probs just b anuva notch on his bed post so I suggest you be careful with him! also how do you know he hasnt got anything? like an std or sti? if you do sleepw ith him MAKE SURE!! he wears CONTRACEPTION!!!

Answer #3

daaam, ya your right about the sex and partners thing. 13 or 14 is a pretty high number if you ask me. Im almost 21 and have only been with 5 chicks. You really can’t sleep with that many girls unless you use em, honestly. so I suggest you don’t do it, he’s probably not clean.

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