Should I go for it or not take this to heart?

On monday, the 23rd, my mom sister her friend and I all went down to lake monroe village to stay in a little cabin and just enjoy some outdoors for a change. While we were going to the pool we saw some other people there and at first I didn’t think much of them..but my mom and the mom of their group started talking. All the kids are around 19-22. Two girls and about three boys. None of them are paying any particular attention to me in the swimming pool but I on the other hand already had my eyes set on one boy with crazy hair and two tattoos on his back. The whole group was drinking and smoking cigarettes so I already knew these were some people I like. I’m only 17, but I’ve been around the block. I’m allowed to smoke..blahblah..so age is almost a no limit factor on my side. To make this meeting even greater…heidi, the mom of the group, invited my mom and us to their place at the resort for drinks and food and just some partyin and conversation. I went over there with my mom and was quiet for about 20 minutes while the cute boy paid some attention to me…asking my name and saying it out loudly, trying to be funny..like…steeephaniiee…kinda in a deep ghetto voice ahah. Anyway, I started to feel just kind of bored and ehh…wanted to go back to my cabin and sleep or something. So I did just that. I walked back and fell asleep until my sister called my mom and my mom told me that two of the guys at the party had asked about me…”where’d your daughter go?” And so I talked to my mom and she wanted me to come back..so I did. Note that my mom doesn’t party, she’s not one of those party type moms, she hates the idea of me drinking, but she’s also very understanding and sweet. So here goes. I walk up there with a change of clothes and some make-up on…and theyve all been drinking but having fun. Kyle, the boy I had my eyes set on, started talking to me..telling me that my mom had mentioned that I was an artist and listened to different music blahblah and he told me he’s the same and dkjsfhdjkfh. Basically we talkeda bout our beliefs..or lack there of…more like disbelief in religion.. But how we respect the people either way. We had a lot in common and the whole night his attention was directed towards me..and not just in some flirtatious I want to get in your pants way…he was genuinely interested and engaged in conversation. We have so many alike views and opinions..it’s incredible. He told me he ilked my nose ring..and when I mentioned how im a vegetarian he asked me “are you my wife?” haha he told me I was amazing..listing off all these things he likes about me. And I said…”that’s what I’m saying..about you!” and blah..he just stood by me the whole time at the table…looking at me…constantly smiling. When my mom came later on to talk to holly, she told me it was time to come home and I too had been drinking lol…but anyway, kyle gave me a hug and told me he loved me :] haha but you know not in some…I love you..truely madly deeply way but like…you know what steph, I love you. Just… I love you, ya know. How ever much you can love someone after just meeting them…I felt the same towards him. He said “dont forget about me!” and I said “I wont forget about you. As long as you don’t forget about me!” we kept hugging… And now I can’t stop thinking about him. He left the next day, which was tuesday for work..which he had told me he was doing, but I had to leave today, wed. Morning and he wasn’t coming back until friday. I told him I was coming up but I’m not so sure I was invited by heidi..even though her and the girls and all the other guys got a long so well. I’m trying to find kyles myspace/facebook…but I’m not so sure he has one..because I do know his last name. We forgot to exchange phone numbers. Although I do have heidis number and another girl from the party that is close friends with kyle. Please tell me what you think.. Do you think it seems like he has an interest in me? I know that we were both drunk..buzzed…but not shit faced, especially since I am easily drunk and can remember a lot of the night. He lives by me. It’d all just be perfect. Should I ask one of the girls for his number? Please help!

Answer #1

hmmm

if you really like this guy, then yes but don’t go to deep, and be broken I no what it feels like they say I love you and your like omg thats great me too! but hey don’t really mean it and you end up broiken… dont let that happen..

best of luck!

Answer #2

I say you should DEFINITELY go for it! You could be so happy! Plus, some guys that keep thing inside, when their drunk, they spill it all out, so he may have been telling the honest truth.

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