Should I let him go or take him back?

I broke up with my ex 2 years ago. Right after we broke up it seemed as though he didn’t love me anymore. But as soon as I moved away to school, he finds me on his own. He tried to get back with me and I was so blind to see it. So I am talking to him again as friends and I have tried numerous of time to let him go but whenever I do that when he comes back into my life. What I am I doing so wrong for me to feel like this? Should I let him go or take him back when he does come back again?

Answer #1

Well that depends on how you feel, if you really miss him and wanna be with him think about giving it another go to see if it will work this time. But before you make that choice you need to remember why you broke up with him in the first place, wateva reason he gave you to leave has he changed since then? has he grown up in the 2 years and make progress and do you see it working this time around? If so then give it one more shot so you wont wonder for the rest of your life if it would have worked or not. But if you dont have feelings for him and want to move on, whenever he comes back tell him you have moved on and dont want him to be a part of your life anymore and ignore him.

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