Should I make him get tested?

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. I am a virgin and he has had sex 3 times with 2 different people. I have given him a handjob and he has fingered me and given me oral. I am scared because he has been with 2 people so he could possibly have an STD. I really don’t know too much about this but I am just wondering if there is a high chance of me getting an STD right now and if I should ask him to get tested or what I should do…

Answer #1

Yes he could still have an STD if he used a condom! You are being a very smart girl by looking out for yourself and getting educated about sex and the risks of it! Do as much research as you can about anything that is bothering you and definately get tested! When you feel confident and ready, go for it, but until then, just know that there is no rush to do anything! Good luck!

Answer #2

If he has had unprotected sex with someone then he is at risk and so are you. The best thing to do is keep on having safe sex and talk to him about it. You can both get tested together that way both of you know for sure and it won’t be something to worry about. Getting tested is no big deal and it’s the least that you can do for someone you care about.

Answer #3

Ok, I really hope I don’t sound stupid, but can’t he still have an STD if he used a condom?

Answer #4

just always use a jonny!

Answer #5

Ummm 2 people isnt that many but not that many…could as well get you an std… So… I would ask him if he used condoms with those gurls… and if you feel that is the right thing to do and if you think he does have an std and if you feel a lot safer that way then yes maybe take him to the local clinic and have him tested its free and a lot better then getting a std just tell him it would make you feel better.

Answer #6

Yes, I would go in together and get tested, even though you are a virgin; it will make him more comfortable and show that you are supportive. You want to TOTALLY protect yourself every step of the way. You could still get crabs or possibly other things even if he does use a raincoat. And one of these days, you both just may want him to go in you w/o a condom, in the passion of the moment, which could be detrimental to you.

Answer #7

you CAN still get an STD even with a condom. YES make him get tested. rather be safe then sorry, right?

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