I found out one of my friends got gonorrhea from someone they slept with. I've never been the loose type and honestly I think people should get tested and have their partner tested before having sex. What would be a good way to present this when I'm in a relationship with someone before we have sex? Do you think it would be rude of me if I actually turned down someone that wanted to have sex if they couldn't show me proof they were clean or do I sound too overboard on this?
If you can't be straightforward about topics like this one, then you'll end up having big issues in the future. You should simply be able to state that you would like both of you to get tested to alleviate any concerns. If someone were to reject that request, I'd be worried about what they have to hide.
Yeah I'd get tested as well XD I actually just got tested recently. Never want to get STDs >_<