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How to ask your bf/gf to get tested before having sex?

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I found out one of my friends got gonorrhea from someone they slept with. I've never been the loose type and honestly I think people should get tested and have their partner tested before having sex. What would be a good way to present this when I'm in a relationship with someone before we have sex? Do you think it would be rude of me if I actually turned down someone that wanted to have sex if they couldn't show me proof they were clean or do I sound too overboard on this?