Should I get a bar across my ear?

I don’t think you should get it done . A friend of mine just got a ring on her cartilage and she cried for at least two weeks, could sleep on that side for months, couldn’t brush her hair and when she took it off after it healed there was a hole like something had eaten through her ear….disgusting!

A girl I work with actually got one about a month ago, and she said it hurt so bad, she didn’t want to finish it, she wanted to get both ears done but not after the first one cuz it hurt so bad, but it does look cool.

Lyk…..I think you need to take an english class. I believe your young and you don’t think you know what you want. You say you need five ‘STRANGERS’ off the internet to justify weather or not you should stick holes through your body. Honey… You should do what you feel. And if your young (18 and under) you should really think about what you do to your body now. You tink it’s cool to pierce and stress your eyelobes…. think about when your ready to move away from your parents. Costs of living has risen to an all time high! you want to be able to get that get paying job…. so you can have that place of your own to do as you please. Believe me… I still need my parents help at 30. You really don’t want to burn your bridges with your parents. Family always out weighs friends.