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Should I forgive him?

my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 months now, and he is a very jelous type and very agressive,last night we had a very stupid argument but he overreacted and put his hands on me. he banged my head on the wall and grabbed my arm really tight I was very mad at him because I told him 2 stop but he didnt listen he just kept going. I love him and I dont understand why he did that 2 me if he says he loves me 2, I kicked him out of my house and I told him it was over. its been a day and I miss him so much. he’s been calling me but I dont answer his phone calls. please help me I dont know what 2 do should I forgive him or should I just move on???

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Answer #1

Well as I see it, he is probably a good guy but if he really cared for you he wouldnt attack you like that. He can either be sorry for what he did to you and never do it again, but another option is that he could say he’s sorry but he might do it again, and it could get worse. When your at the point when he does this to you a lot it is harder to get out of. If I were you, I would talk to him and make it clear that it’s not okay for him to do that and that if he did he’d be gone. But I’m not you, so its your decision wether to give him a second chance but you should think about if it’s worth it, if he did hit you again and became even more agressive then how would you get out. and if you love him enough to put p with it. And I know what it’s like “even though he hurt me so much I’ll still go back to him no matter what” and to be honest, I ended up hurting myself so this is something that you need to think over so give it time hun, it will all work outt

Answer #2

I would never. Ever put my hands on someone I loved. No matter what the situation.

He sounds like a bastard. Jerk.

Dump him. And beleive me. You’ll find someone else

Answer #3

Move on nobody deserves to be physically hurt thats just not right. Theres always a chance he will do it again if he has done it once. I suggest if you don’t feel comfotable with losing him to just be friends but I don’t suggest you get into a realtionship again. Anyways a guy should never hurt a girl but good luck hopefully everything works out

Answer #4

please wutever you do do not forgive him..because I use to have a boyfriend of 3yrs like that at first its just lil stuff then it gets really worse..just move on it will be hard but you can do it!

Answer #5

Kick his @ss, and look for a tender b/f. This behaviour will never be better, but will always be more and more rough. Run away till you can without serious injury. Do you want to walk in the street with blue circles arund your eyes?

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